I get this question a lot. “What is it that you hear that makes you sure you’re communicating with the deceased?”   I hate to say it, but it doesn’t “sound” like anything.  Information is delivered to me, like a story that is not mine, a story connected to the loved one who has died.

For example, I get who has died, say, “Mother.”  I get a month, “April.”  Maybe that’s when she died, or her birthday.  I get information on how she died, “lung cancer.”  This may come in as words or I will get the physical sensation of labored breathing along with the words “lung cancer.”   Your mother wants you to know she’s here and that she is communicating with you during the reading.  It is the detailed message that she delivers during a reading that confirms her presence.